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不再让美局限于同一种标准和尺寸,近年来,社群网站上开始吹起新一波生活方式。来自美国 30 岁的 Jenna Kutcher,身材圆润的她经常于 Instagram 分享正面观点,不需要刻意节食瘦身,依然可以活出健康又快乐的人生。与此同时,也趁着机会向和她一样丰满的女性加油打气。
 
 

“Someone once slid into my DMs…”


镜头前,Jenna 始终开朗地微笑,她不吝于分享和老公 Drew 甜蜜的合照画面,诉说两人浪漫的生活日常。然而,也正因为如此,她收到不少网友的批评和质疑,表示身材圆润的她,为什么可以嫁给体态结实的健身教练。近日,她的一则推文,在网路上掀起热议,感动了许多朋友。

THE REALITY OF GOING VIRAL: We’ve spent the last few days gawking at the fact that society believes that seeing two people (who happen to have different body types) in love is newsworthy, and yet we are embracing it whole heartedly because it means that we get to share our message with YOU, with the world. 〜 We are not our bodies. I am not defined by titles like “curvy” or plus size, Drew is not defined by “Mr. Six Pack.” At the end of the day, we are the girl and the guy who fell in love and started dating in college after @kickingitwithkutch lost a bet that led to a first kiss – the rest is history. 〜 Our story is has held ups and down, light and loss and we’ve chosen to show up and turn the mess into our message. Because we believe the world is hungry for REAL and going viral has proven that. 〜 Here we are: Jenna and Drew, a small town couple who are as normal as they come and more in love today than the day they said “I do.” You might have met us because of our bodies but I pray you fall in love with our hearts and souls and stick around awhile. Will you? 〜 Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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Jenna 放上和老公Drew 于海滩上的亲吻照,写下:「有不少网友曾私讯我,说他们不敢相信我嫁给这么帅的老公。说真的,我对此感到吃惊。我身体某部分的不安全感,让我对嫁给六块腹肌先生(Drew)产生却步。为什么一位身材圆润的女孩可以掳获他的心?我开始觉得自己配不起他,我不经思考着:『可能是因为我不瘦,我不值得拥有他』。」

Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. 🙋🏼 This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match. 🙌🏻 So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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“This man has embraced every curve…”

Find the one you wanna tackle on the beach. We’re more pancakes on the couch while watching “This is Us” than going out kind of people. 🍷 We’re more adventures over things and less is really more kinda people. We’re fans of wine tastings that happen on the couch and church on Sunday mornings. 🛋 We let our dogs sleep under the covers and we list three things we’re thankful for every night before falling asleep. 🙏🏼 We’re small town folks with big dreams. We’re going places together and we’re still getting sand out of unmentionable places while we settle back into our little Midwest life. 👫 We are wildly filled with gratitude and excited for what’s to come. And yes, I love @kickingitwithkutch! (Have you seen how cute he is?) 🙋🏼 What’s the number one thing you look for in finding your partner in crime? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman

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「回首过去这十几年来,这位男人接受我每一寸身材曲线、我的橘皮组织、我的体重以及痘痘,他总是提醒我自己很漂亮,哪怕我心里感到不相配(或是好几天没洗澡)。所以,没错,我的大腿之间没有缝隙,我的手臂很壮,我的屁股崎岖不平,但他就是喜欢这样子的我,我选择一位愿意接受我这些事物的男人(还有更多!)。」


Jenna 最后写下:「我比自己的身材还要好太多了,他(Drew)也是,而且你也是。如果你觉得真爱不应该局限于尺寸上,麻烦请按赞。」,短短上传四天,Jenna 的这则推文迎来四万网友按赞。

I feel like I live a double life, I am a walking contradiction. 🙋🏼 My life is a mix of swimsuits and sweatpants. I’m partially competitive, partially content. I’m either out there jet-setting or home on the couch refusing to move for even the UPS man. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I love Jesus but sometimes I curse. I love humans but I fuel up by myself. My style is high end but laid back. I have a passion for fashion but I still wear ragged high school tee shirts. I want to save the world but I also want to take a nap. ✨ I’m the girl next door and a 7-figure empire founder. I embrace my curves but still struggle with self love. I’m considered a pro but still feel like a fraud. My life is as different as the winters in Wisconsin and the sunshine of the islands and yet here I am: simply happy. 🎉 Tell me something about you that can’t be defined by a title! Am I alone? 🙈 Swimsuit: @shopashleylemieux

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Jenna 呼吁大家不要因为旁人的舆论而否定了自己存在的价值。在「对的人」面前,我们看见的不再只是外在表现,而是埋藏于肌肤底下的那一颗「心」。如果有一天,你遇见一位可以接受自己一切的人,请一定好好地珍惜他,不要让这个人轻易地从你生命中擦身而过。

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